lethalfizzel

All the top celebrities, athletes, businessmen have it, so do all the guys with the chicks, hell anyone who eventually gets to the top of anything is guaranteed to have it. Yep it's CONFIDENCE. I'd say confidence is:

The ability to relax and be yourself no matter what the situation.


Let me give you an example that most guys can relate to. Imagine you approached a girl, a smoking hot girl, most guys would have an anxiety attack, get nervous and f*** up. A person with confidence would remain relaxed, and be able to convey his full personality. It's a no brainer to who has a better chance at winning over the chick.

Bad examples aside:

If you want to be appear confident focus on relaxation.


Brad Pitt for example, shines confidence, no matter what photograph you see him in he always looks cool and confident. This is because he is relaxed in his body language and mind.

Confident people are generally unaffected by other peoples vibes, or frames of thought. They do not "hide" what they believe when under pressure. One such pressure could be peer pressure/social pressure. They don't follow trends they set them.

The Usual Cycle:

Timid person ----> Experiences Success ----> Becomes Confident ----> Confidence brings more success in all aspects of life.

However for this to happen, you must experience success, sometimes many successes in a row or a big success. Ever watch a talent show? Ever see how timid the contestants are on there first audition? Do you notice the difference? The winner of the show has gone through a total change of personality whether they know it or not. They developed confidence.


Do you wanna become confident? don't wait for success, start the change now!!

Put yourself in situations, which would need a a more confident version of yourself!!


Scared of giving a presentation, force yourself to do one in front of a group, I had to give a presentation to 300 people before i could completely relax and be myself in the situation.

It's a skill, you want it, go develop it.